Is twenty years of living with my parents enough to experience life so as to comment on it and have my own theories about it? I think it is , as long as the parents aren’t pressing on my freedom.
I must say, my parents have been really generous when it comes to money,freedom and having my own thoughts and beliefs.This was one of the contributing reasons , I started thinking on my own about why i do what i do , another being my friend- fuzzy logic , who constantly debates with me about the various aspects of life , our actions ,reactions, it’s pro’s & con’s and their symptoms.
My age , according to Kohelberg is a conventional stage when people start questioning trusted beliefs .So, do i stick to his theory ?I personally don’t know . I beleive the good and bad experience’s in our life , are caused by none other than ourselves .We are the reason why we are , what we are .
Experience :Humans are similar to a super computer.They have a really big hard disk which collect’s all their experiences, there is a major problem with this hard disk , it is really difficult to write on it and once it is written, it is impossible to erase it .Bad experiences are bad sectors we have marked on our mind and we try not to go near them .
Intelligence:Every one , are born with the same level of intelligence , it is similar to the RAM of the computer. Intelligence is determined by how well we are able to apply the knowledge that we already have .This a where a common misconception is encountered , everyone think when a person possesses a lot of knowlege the person is smart . How do we gain the skill of application(intelligence)? How are certain people named dumb ?
I beleive patience and systematism is the key to any person’s success and these are the two most important qualities that are required and has to be cultivated at a really young age . This is the major resposibility of the parents .
It is due to the lack of these 2 qualities that we pay a huge price: not understanding life. Let me give an example as to support my theory . Gymnasiums in most parts of the world earn profit from obese people, claiming they would help them reduce their weight. Why do they gain weight in the first place ? It is due to their own haphazard practices. I think gymnasiums should be classified as rehab centers.
Similarly, when it comes to studies . We find that some people like a certain subject while some people hate it. How is this possible ? We tend to hate a subject because we are not successful in it (i.e) we are not able to understand what it is . The reason for this is that our basics have been weak . We are too lazy to go back all the way to the basics and strengthen it and simply start hating the subject .It is really funny to notice that everyone would accept we cannot build a house on a weak base. But when it comes to their own understanding of things they do the exact same thing !
Humans , i must give it to them , have devoloped really well . A governmental system is a perfect example of a systematic approach to solving the problem of management of people.Similarly the devolopment in other fields or engineering , law,medicine etc.. But this is the work done by 20% of those who have understood what they are trying to do . Imagine if 20% of the human potential could come up with something so spectacular what if 80 % of them did ?(assuming not everyone could be thinking in the same way i have assumed a 20% tolerance limit)
This is what the educational system focusses at ,to give in theory and minimal practise , what our fore fathers have experienced so that we , humans , can use that as a spring board to explore from the exact point where they have left . This is such a beautiful concept. But we have flown far from it . Nowadays education is nothing but blind scoring of ‘A’ grades . Most of them are smug with a A grade even if they do not understand the subject, thus making .
The important culprits are , as far as india goes , The concept of God ,Culture and the misguided society . Which i will write about in the upcoming posts .